children, Communication, Friends, Holiday, inspiration, Joy, Photography, Poetry, Writing

A Poem: These Gifts Given in Times of Black Ice

My favorite Christmas picture of Corrie from 2017. The poem below is written as a "thank you" to so many people who sent us cards, messages, or gifts in support of our journey without Corrie. This is a poem you have to read through with the biggest "thank you" to Mom and my husband, John.… Continue reading A Poem: These Gifts Given in Times of Black Ice

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Candy Cane: A Corrie Poem

Corrie sang last year in her preschool's Christmas concert, and of course puts her hands in her sleeves. Corrie om Christmas Day last year sitting on her new Frozen bike in the box. The last picture ever both of my children with Santa Claus. Corrie with all the coloring and Frozen book collection on the… Continue reading Candy Cane: A Corrie Poem

autism, children, Communication, Family, Life, Poetry

A Sibling Love Story: Poem for Corrie and Hayes

Hayes and Corrie in early May 2020. sticks in black water, the lake where my grandparents lived looked  black until you crept to the side and saw sticks with splintered stems.  i’ve heard love stories like that before. the story where a couple chooses the happiest moments for coffee mugs,  pillows, and twentieth anniversary albums.… Continue reading A Sibling Love Story: Poem for Corrie and Hayes

Family, inspiration, marriage, Poetry, Writing

A Poem: We’ll Still Ride Upside Down

Remember our discussions of rollercoasters ...

bereavement, Family, Holiday, inspiration, parenting, Poetry, Uncategorized, Writing

Unlit, A Corrie Poem

As a child, I wondered about the houses without wreaths, trees and lights and the reasons why ...

Family, Food, inspiration, Photography, Poetry, Uncategorized, Writing

Coffee and Cake (A Corrie Poem)

I dream of the airplane with blue wings, Corrie's cake, and coffee with cream.

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The Best Reason Why: John, His Service, and His Poem

Some loves experience more pies in the face than ballets and dreams sold to strangers on a holiday channel.

children, Family, inspiration, Life, parenthood, parenting, Poetry, Writing

A Corrie Poem: A Day

There will come a day, as days come and days fade, when i look at the walls after I walk through the double doors to pick up my son from his elementary school.

Advocacy, bereavement, Family, flowers, Grief, Holiday, inspiration, kindness, Photography, Photos, Poetry, Writing

Fill Up the Empty Chair for Thanksgiving

Some say empty chairs remain empty all around tables in remodeled kitchens with the island where someone's son ate breakfast. A bar stool sits empty. I arranged flowers this morning for Corrie's room, her spot at the table, and a centerpiece. "Remember me" is a common thought of some who read Bibles and then wonder… Continue reading Fill Up the Empty Chair for Thanksgiving

Family, Life, Poetry, Writing

Of Backpacks and Hymn Books

Gold, despite what some say, doesn't just come from mines.