Advocacy, Child loss, Grief, Life, Loss, Mental Health, Poetry

Trauma Dumping, a Poem

Today, I share a poem on a term about which I have written before. This time I read this poem, "Trauma Dumping," in Corrie's Butterfly Garden.

Child loss, garden, garden photos, gardens, Life, nature, TikTok Video

If TikTok Says Goodbye

Now the cat's bell jingles in the hallway, as he hopes I will open the door to Corrie's room where he spent much of his kitten time. Where there should be the sound of a 10-year-old girl telling me to leave her room, the wind rustles the last of the brown leaves on the trees.

garden, garden photos, gardens, nature

New Year, No Dig, Still Here

Most of the story of the work towards the latest no dig areas, specifically in our Wall Garden, is told through pictures and video.

Blogging, garden, garden photos, gardens, Photos, TikTok Video

All the Garden Favorites I’ve Loved Before

During the holiday season, I put up 10 luminaries at the back of the Arendelle Garden with evergreens I have planted throughout 2024 honoring our daughter Corrie's tenth birthday on December 10. In the time between Christmas and the New Year when it pours rain outside, snow covers your driveway, or all of the wintry… Continue reading All the Garden Favorites I’ve Loved Before

Family, kindness, Life, marriage, Photography, Photos

Hot Sauce to my Chicken Dip

At the end of the day, I want to be around him more than anyone else because he is my best friend.

Bereaved Parents, bereavement, Child loss, Mental Health, TikTok Video

TikTok Christmas Card and Sunset at the Cemetery: (You’ve been Warned)

https://videopress.com/v/wRJQPkRC?resizeToParent=true&cover=true&preloadContent=metadata&useAverageColor=true This is the TikTok Christmas card I made for everyone. If you watch until the end, you will see Felix, my cat, and Sugar Belle, our family dog, in their holiday sweaters. I was weary of the social media platform, TikTok, but now I hope the United States does not lose access to it.… Continue reading TikTok Christmas Card and Sunset at the Cemetery: (You’ve been Warned)

Advocacy, bereavement, Child loss, Family, garden photos, Holiday, inspiration, Life, Loss, Mental Health, Photography, TikTok Video

Ways to Support those Grieving during the Holidays

The way we grieve is personal. An accepted fact about grief is that everyone grieves differently. What seems the hardest to understand is how people grieving is denormalized in society, and how we are sometimes ousted from some relationships when we unveil our grief. In our early stages of grief, maybe we feel shock, mourn,… Continue reading Ways to Support those Grieving during the Holidays

Family, inspiration, Life

My Testimony to Faith

I plan for this to be the one time I write publicly in some depth about faith. I hope that it will hold true.

garden, garden photos, gardens, inspiration, Photography, Photos, TikTok Video

More than Gardening

This raised bed makes the experience more than just gardening.

Child loss, garden, gardens, inspiration, Mental Health, Photography, Photos

The Unexpected Journey

I remember a woman at one of my Compassionate Friends--an international support group for parents, grandparents, and siblings who have lost a child/ brother/ sister--said that, with time, your grief journey will bring you gifts you never imagined. Now if you had the choice to get your child back, of course, you would take it, but this is the path given to us.