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The Three Cs in Growth through Grief

Friends on social media share the happy pictures of their children all of the time. Now, I can either drink two bottles of wine and feel the full weight of envy, or I can celebrate the life of my daughter by making somber places beautiful. I can make them look like the joy and happiness Corrie brought to my life.

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Fill Up the Empty Chair for Thanksgiving

Some say empty chairs remain empty all around tables in remodeled kitchens with the island where someone's son ate breakfast. A bar stool sits empty. I arranged flowers this morning for Corrie's room, her spot at the table, and a centerpiece. "Remember me" is a common thought of some who read Bibles and then wonder… Continue reading Fill Up the Empty Chair for Thanksgiving

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Stepping on the Jelly Fish

In the book, Healing A Parent's Grieving Heart: 100 Practical Ideas by Alan Wolfelt wrote: "In the United States alone, more than 100,000 children die each year."

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Infant Girl Houser’s Grave is Important, too

Her grave is important, too.

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The Greatest Gift Given

We all have something we want.

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So, You want Life to be Normal Again

While my daughter lay dying with what I thought was a stomach bug just before her doctor's appointment, I gave feedback on five students' work when I wasn't going to work at all that day due to my daughter's illness.

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The Importance of the Memorial Kinder Walk

I absolutely believe Corrie's time on this Earth mattered, and she has a mom who will write about her until I can join her again.

Advocacy, Life, Mental Health, PTSD, Writing

The Call to Write about Trauma

I wrote some meaningful poems during that time. 

I wrote some crappy, thirteen-year-old blow your nose in notebook paper poems.

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Busting Up the Brick in the Wall

Because as exhausting as my list of social cue questions is for me, imagine how many people there are who feel that way.

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The Evolution of a Writer

I'm fine with writing though because it doesn't lie to your face or just disappear.