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Fill Up the Empty Chair for Thanksgiving

Some say empty chairs remain

empty

all around tables in

remodeled kitchens with the

island where someone’s son

ate breakfast. A bar stool sits

empty.

I arranged flowers this morning for Corrie’s room, her spot at the table, and a centerpiece.

“Remember me” is a common thought

of some who read Bibles and then

wonder when a chair sits

empty.

No matter who believes and who

does not, nothing takes away a

fact a chair on Thanksgiving Day sits

empty.

Flowers on her desk.
The coffee cup in which Corrie placed the flowers she would pick on the farm.

Remember those who bow their

heads and tears stream down

their faces of the baby lost, or

the baby who could not stay.

The highchair brought or the

highchair dreamed of sits

empty.

Corrie’s coffee cup. This picture reminds me of how she would hide and peak around the corner.

So, Love, I buy the roses and purple

flowers when I hear you say,

“Mommy, can I have them, please.

They’re so pretty. I love them.”

Corrie’s spot at the table with her flower and coffee cup.
I added Corrie’s apron.

I fill up your seat, so on the

Thanksgiving Day, we

remember you and the other

children gone too soon. We

fill up the seats instead of

leaving an empty space. We

remember the babies who are

first in flight before their toes

ever got to touch the ground.

We recall the sound of tires

coming in the drive, and when he or

she could not wait to dip fingers

in the sauce. We celebrate the

seat next to your grandchildren

where your child, forever your

baby, will sit in your mind.

Love, I fill up your seat for

a Kindergarten dream

never realized, or the times I

walk past the walls where

your name and art would’ve been.

Just because the seat is empty,

it doesn’t mean

I’ll leave it

empty.

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