bereavement, Family, Holiday, inspiration, parenting, Poetry, Uncategorized, Writing

Unlit, A Corrie Poem

As a child, I wondered about the houses without wreaths, trees and lights and the reasons why ...

Family, Food, inspiration, Photography, Poetry, Uncategorized, Writing

Coffee and Cake (A Corrie Poem)

I dream of the airplane with blue wings, Corrie's cake, and coffee with cream.

Art, children, Communication, Family, Life, parenthood, Photography, Photos, Poetry, Writing

The Best Reason Why: John, His Service, and His Poem

Some loves experience more pies in the face than ballets and dreams sold to strangers on a holiday channel.

Advocacy, children, Family, flowers, inspiration, parenthood, Photography, Photos

Happy Birthday Corrie

Today is Corrie's sixth birthday, and her first in heaven.

children, Family, Grief, inspiration, marriage, parenthood

December … We Remember

Corrie wouldn't want us to leave her grave undecorated. She'd be out there with me adding ribbons and, probably, arguing with me about why we can't leave feather boas on the gravesites.

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A Corrie Poem: A Day

There will come a day, as days come and days fade, when i look at the walls after I walk through the double doors to pick up my son from his elementary school.

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Four Points: Speaking with a Child about the Unimaginable

I saw the tears in Daddy's eyes, and Hayes hugged his Papa. For my father to acknowledge Hayes's losses was a powerful moment for both of them. Another adult, besides his parents, verbally spoke with him about his losses.

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The Three Cs in Growth through Grief

Friends on social media share the happy pictures of their children all of the time. Now, I can either drink two bottles of wine and feel the full weight of envy, or I can celebrate the life of my daughter by making somber places beautiful. I can make them look like the joy and happiness Corrie brought to my life.

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Corrie’s Garden and Her Flowers at Sunset

Corrie's Memorial Garden will be located to the right of the porch. These flowers were at the cemetery for about one week, and I brought them home. They were not doing well at the time I brought them home, and they are doing so much better. Her turkey is still there even of my grandmother… Continue reading Corrie’s Garden and Her Flowers at Sunset

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Mountain Laurel Buds

Corrie loved to pick the Mountain Laurels. The buds from the Mountain Laurel are peaking. Corrie loved to pick flowers from this bush.