Advocacy, Bereaved Parents, bereavement, Grief, inspiration, Life, Loss, parenthood

Reemergence: Those Sweet Honeybees don’t Know Me

Remember, those sweet honeybees don't know me. A sparkling sassiness has overtaken the sarcasm, which was always a part of my personality. It's an attitude of: "Honey, if you don't like it, there's the door. The beautiful thing about the door is that you can fit through it and I can shut it."

Advocacy, Poetry, Politics

Still Believe in Rainbows and Stars, A Poem

I debated within myself whether I'd share this poem, I Still Believe in Rainbows and Stars, for multiple reasons. It's multilayered with connections to Corrie and other topics, and like several of the poems I'm currently writing, deep in processing what the US is witnessing as a nation.

Advocacy, Bereaved Parents, Child loss, Family, flowers, garden, Grief, Photography, Photos

Growing in Grief Through Gardens

Growing up, I laughed at the thought of working in any garden. I believed that I possessed a brown thumb. Evening in Corrie's Butterfly Garden, also known as the Main Garden. Yet, the earliest lesson I remember from my teacher happened in second grade. Ironically, that was year I was officially diagnosed with attention deficit… Continue reading Growing in Grief Through Gardens

Advocacy, bereavement, Education, Joy, Life, Writing

LEGO: A Love Story, Part I

Throughout these two-and-half years (three years this May) after Corrie earned her wings, and during which John battled stage 3 colon cancer, we've had many stories from Corrie's garden, to Hayes' growth, in education and with us.  Another part involves LEGO.

Advocacy, Bereaved Parents, bereavement, Child loss, Grief, inspiration, Life, Mental Health

A Journey Long after the Casseroles are Gone

Never walk alone. I'll be here long after the casseroles are gone.

Advocacy, autism, Education, Poetry

Not Your Average Teacher: Atypical, LEGO Educator and Published

I celebrate 20 publications. I celebrate and embrace being atypical. I honor and remember that grief does not define me, but is a part of me.

Advocacy, Bereaved Parents, Child loss, children

COVID-19: A Real Story

The words that you read today on this post, which I hope you take the time to read through, come from within. The words you read come from a mother who has buried a child and miscarried another within one year. The mother who writes today has found out her son, Hayes, has a mild case of COVID-19. 

Advocacy, Bereaved Parents, Blogging, children, Family, inspiration, parenthood, parenting, Writing

These Things I Wonder

There are so many things I wonder. Questions without answers.

Advocacy, Bereaved Parents, Grief, inspiration, Life, Loss, Writing

What is the Power of Words in Our Grief?

No matter the loss. No matter the person. No one should ever feel alone in the months and years after loss. Grief doesn't vanish after the last casserole comes to the door.

Advocacy, Bereaved Parents, Child loss, children, Family, Grief, Photography, Writing

A Reflection on the Person who Inspired my Strength

Never make a decision in the dark. Wait for the dawn to come.